Song Information
Title: Mammas Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys
Artists: Waylon Jennings & Willie Nelson
Songwriters: Ed Bruce and Patsy Bruce
Original Release (Ed Bruce): 1975
Waylon & Willie Version Release: January 1978
Album: Waylon & Willie
Genre: Outlaw Country
Label: RCA Records
Chart Success:
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#1 on Billboard Hot Country Singles
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Grammy Award for Best Country Performance by a Duo or Group (1979)
Originally written and recorded by Ed Bruce in 1975, the version most recognized by audiences comes from the powerful duet between Waylon Jennings and Willie Nelson in 1978. It became an anthem of the outlaw country movement, capturing the rugged, lonely, and misunderstood lifestyle of cowboys in modern America.
Song Summary
Mammas Don’t Let Your Babies Grow Up to Be Cowboys is a heartfelt plea wrapped in country twang and outlaw swagger. The lyrics explore the idea that cowboys, often romanticized in American culture, lead hard and emotionally distant lives. They prefer old trucks to fancy cars, and rather be alone than compromise. They love deeply but are never around long enough for love to last.
Waylon and Willie take turns singing with grit and truth, warning mothers not to raise their sons into such lives—implying it’s full of heartache, solitude, and emotional walls. It’s not a condemnation of cowboy life, but a sobering view from two men who have lived on the road, bearing witness to what that lifestyle costs in intimacy and family.
The tune rolls along with steel guitars and a worn-out wisdom that feels like a campfire confession. Despite its catchy chorus, it carries a heavy warning beneath its melody: freedom comes with a price—and some men choose that price willingly.
Explained Theme
At the heart of the song lies a generational dilemma: freedom vs. family. Waylon and Willie, both symbols of rebellion in country music, are not telling mothers to shame their sons for wanting the cowboy life—they’re simply stating a hard truth. Cowboys may be noble and free, but they often sacrifice emotional closeness, stability, and domestic life to live by their own rules.
The “cowboy” becomes a metaphor not just for rodeo men, but for any free spirit who avoids societal expectations—especially those that involve commitment. By warning mothers not to raise cowboys, the song ironically acknowledges that such a path is often chosen, not inherited, and that even the strongest love from home might not be enough to change it.
The real tension lies in the sadness behind the cowboy myth. While movies show heroes riding into the sunset, this song shows what happens after the sun sets—when the cowboy is alone, distant, maybe regretting what he left behind. The message is bittersweet: independence is beautiful, but not always kind.
Watch the Song Performance:
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Lyrics:
They’d rather give you a song than diamonds or gold
Lonestar belt buckles and old faded levis
And each night begins a new day
If you don’t understand him, an’ he don’t die young
He’ll prob’ly just ride away
Mamas, don’t let your babies grow up to be cowboys
Don’t let ’em pick guitars or drive them old trucks
Let ’em be doctors and lawyers and such
Mamas don’t let your babies grow up to be cowboys
‘Cos they’ll never stay home and they’re always alone
Even with someone they love
Cowboys like smokey old pool rooms and clear mountain mornings
Little warm puppies and children and girls of the night
Them that don’t know him won’t like him and them that do
Sometimes won’t know how to take him
He ain’t wrong, he’s just different but his pride won’t let him
Do things to make you think he’s right
Mamas, don’t let your babies grow up to be cowboys
Don’t let ’em pick guitars or drive them old trucks
Let ’em be doctors and lawyers and such
Mamas don’t let your babies grow up to be cowboys
‘Cos they’ll never stay home and they’re always alone
Even with someone they love