Photo of Tammy WYNETTE

In 1968, Tammy Wynette recorded “Stand By Your Man” in what seemed like a routine session, never imagining it would become the biggest hit of her career. Within weeks, the song climbed to No. 1 on the country charts and would go on to be one of the most iconic tracks in country music history.

The lyrics encourage women to stand by their man, even when he makes mistakes, because “after all, he’s just a man.” Upon release, the song’s sweet melody and Tammy’s heartfelt delivery won over millions of listeners. But it also ignited a storm of controversy.

Photo of Tammy WYNETTE, Tammy Wynette performing on stage

With the women’s liberation movement in full swing in the late 1960s, many saw the song as a step backward, claiming it promoted female dependence on men. Tammy faced tough questions from the press and even protests from some groups at her performances.

What’s striking is that behind the scenes of the “Stand By Your Man” video shoot, Tammy remained poised and cheerful. Photos show her adjusting her hair in front of a mirror, laughing with the crew, or quietly studying the lyrics. She once said, “I was singing about what I believed at the time. Everyone has the right to hear and interpret it in their own way.”

Photo of Tammy WYNETTE

Despite the backlash, “Stand By Your Man” earned Tammy Wynette a Grammy and cemented her place in music history. Over half a century later, it remains beloved by many and continues to be covered, while also serving as a cultural talking point on the portrayal of women in music.

🎵 Suggested listening: “Stand By Your Man” – Tammy Wynette.

Lyrics:

I’ve been accused, among other thingsOf doing most of my writing for you ladiesBut I did write a song special for you guysDon’t go away feeling slightedThis is special for you
Sometimes it’s hard to be a womanGiving all your love to just one manYou’ll have bad times, and he’ll have good timesDoin’ things that you don’t understand
But if you love him, you’ll forgive himEven though he’s hard to understandAnd if you love him, oh, be proud of him‘Cause after all, he’s just a man
Stand by your manGive him two arms to cling toAnd something warm to come toWhen nights are cold and lonely
Stand by your manAnd show the world you love himKeep giving all the love you canStand by your man
Stand by your manAnd show the world you love himKeep giving all the love you canStand by your man
Your man