About the song

In the realm of rock and roll, few names resonate with the enduring power and charisma of Rod Stewart. With a voice as raspy as it is soulful, and a stage presence that commands attention, Stewart has carved a niche for himself as one of the most celebrated artists of all time. His music, spanning decades and genres, has consistently struck a chord with audiences worldwide, offering a tapestry of emotions that capture the essence of love, loss, and the indomitable human spirit.

Amongst Stewart’s vast repertoire of hits, the ballad “I Was Only Joking” stands as a poignant testament to his lyrical prowess and vocal mastery. Released in 1978 as part of his album Foot Loose & Fancy Free, the song quickly ascended the charts, reaching number five in the UK and number twenty-two in the US. Its enduring popularity is a testament to its ability to connect with listeners on a deeply personal level, weaving a tale of love, regret, and the power of redemption.

“I Was Only Joking” opens with a gentle acoustic guitar strumming, setting a melancholic tone that perfectly complements Stewart’s emotive vocals. The lyrics, penned by Stewart himself in collaboration with Gary Grainger, paint a vivid picture of a relationship on the brink of collapse. The narrator, consumed by guilt and remorse, pleads for forgiveness from a lover they have wronged, their words laced with desperation and a glimmer of hope.

As the song progresses, the instrumentation swells, incorporating elements of piano, strings, and mandolin, adding depth and dimension to the emotional narrative. Stewart’s voice, soaring and raw, conveys the weight of his regrets and the depth of his longing for reconciliation. The chorus, a heartfelt plea for understanding, serves as the song’s emotional anchor, capturing the essence of a love that refuses to be extinguished:

I was only joking when I said I’d leave you I was only joking when I said I’d go I was only joking when I said goodbye Oh, baby, I was only joking

The bridge offers a glimmer of hope, as the narrator acknowledges the pain they have caused and expresses their unwavering commitment to the relationship. Their words, infused with sincerity and a desire for change, hint at the possibility of redemption and a renewed chance at love.

“I Was Only Joking” concludes with a poignant repetition of the chorus, leaving the listener with a sense of lingering hope and the belief in the transformative power of love. Stewart’s voice, imbued with a touch of vulnerability, underscores the song’s message of reconciliation and the resilience of the human spirit.

More than just a ballad of love and loss, “I Was Only Joking” serves as a reminder of the fragility of relationships and the importance of communication and understanding. It is a testament to Rod Stewart’s ability to craft songs that resonate with audiences on a profound level, offering solace, hope, and the belief in the power of redemption.

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Lyrics

Ever since I was a kid at schoolI messed around with all the rulesApologised then realisedI’m not different after all
Me and the boys thought we had it sussedValentinos all of usMy dad said we looked ridiculousBut boy, we broke some hearts
In and out of jobs, running freeWaging war with societyDumb blank faces stare back at meBut nothing ever changed
Promises made in the heat of the nightCreeping home before it got too lightI wasted all that precious timeAnd blamed it on the wine
I was only joking my dear (my dear)Looking for a way to hide my fear (my fear)What kind of fool was I? (Was I)I could never win (never win)
Never found a compromiseCollected lovers like butterfliesIllusions of that grand first prizeAre slowly wearing thin
Susie, baby, you were good to meGiving love unselfishlyBut you took it all too seriouslyI guess it had to end
I was only joking my dear (my dear)Looking for a way to hide my fear (my fear)What kind of fool was I? (Was I)I could never win (never win)
Yeah baby, whoa
Now you ask me if I’m sincereThat’s the question that I always fearVers e seven is never clearBut I’ll tell you what you wanna hear
I try to give you all you wantBut giving love is not my strongest pointIf that’s the case it’s pointless going onI’d rather be alone
‘Cause what I’m doing must be wrongPouring my heart out in a songOwning up for prosperityFor the whole damn world to see
Quietly now while I turn a pageAct one is over without costume changeThe principal would like to leave the stageThe crowd don’t understand