When people talk about Kenny Chesney’s love life, they often mention his brief marriage to actress Renee Zellweger or his private relationships. But there’s another woman—never in the spotlight, never on red carpets—whom Kenny cherished deeply: his grandmother.

She wasn’t famous, but her quiet strength and wisdom shaped Kenny’s life in profound ways. In a rare interview about family, Kenny once said:

“I learned patience, kindness, and how to watch the world from her. She didn’t teach with words. She taught by living.”

As a woman from a different era, Kenny’s grandmother rarely expressed affection openly. Yet she followed his journey from small bar gigs to sold-out arenas. Every tour, Kenny carried an old photo of her in his pocket—a quiet compass reminding him who he was.

His song “Grandpa Told Me So” was, in truth, inspired more by her than by his grandfather. She endured poverty and hardship with quiet dignity, and her influence lived in his lyrics.

After she passed, Kenny didn’t speak much about her, but fans noticed—a stretch of sad, reflective songs emerged. As if a piece of his soul had left with her.

Lyrics

If you don’t get in the water, you’re never gonna learn to swimHe said a snake is just as scared of you, as you are of himHe could tell by the moon when the fish would biteSeems there was nothing that he didn’t knowAnd as a kid I believed, ’cause grandpa told me so
He talked daddy into letting me have my first carI thought I was really something till Becky Thompson broke my heartThat first taste of love nearly did me inGetting over her was slowAnd I knew someday I would, ’cause grandpa told me so
He said life was made for you to liveThe best love is the love that you giveThere’ll be times when you wanna hold on but you gotta let goAnd I lived by those words, ’cause grandpa told me so
I promised him I wouldn’t cry when it was his time to leaveThat’s the only promise I made him I couldn’t keepHe smiled from his bed and said we’ll meet againSomewhere down the roadAnd I believed, ’cause grandpa told me so
He said life was made for you to liveThe best love is the love that you giveThere’ll be times when you wanna hold on but you gotta let goAnd I lived by those words, ’cause grandpa told me so
He said life was made for you to liveThe best love is the love that you giveThere’ll be times when you wanna hold on but you gotta let goAnd I lived by those words, ’cause grandpa told me so
Yeah, and I still believe, ’cause grandpa told me so
Grandpa told me soI still believe
Grandpa told me soI still believeYeah, and I still believe