Before Kenny Chesney became a country megastar with millions of fans, he was a small-town boy raised under the watchful eyes of his parents—especially his mother, Karen Chandler. A high school teacher, she had one wish for her son: a safe, stable life far from the chaos of the entertainment world.
While studying at East Tennessee State University, Kenny played at local bars to earn money and follow his passion. But when he told his parents about his dream to move to Nashville and pursue music full-time, their reaction wasn’t excitement—it was fear.
“My mom cried,” Kenny revealed in a 2001 interview. “She was scared I’d fail, get hurt, and have nothing to come back to. She said, ‘Please just live a normal life.’”
They weren’t just worried about money. They feared their shy, quiet son couldn’t survive the cutthroat world of Nashville. For a whole year, they pleaded with him to stay home—finish school, become a teacher or an accountant, do anything… just something safe.
But Kenny saw things differently. He believed he’d regret it forever if he didn’t at least try. So in 1992, he left home with nothing but his guitar and a dream no one else believed in.
Three decades later, with over 30 million albums sold, countless awards, and sold-out stadiums across America, his parents no longer question his path. They’re proud—deeply so. Karen once quietly attended a concert in Tampa and, when asked by a reporter, said:
“I once begged that boy to stay. Now I understand why he had to go.”
Kenny Chesney – There Goes My Life
Lyrics
All he could think about was:
“I’m too young for this.
“Got my whole life ahead.
“Hell, I’m just a kid myself:
“How ‘m I gonna raise one?”
All he could see were his dreams,
Going up in smoke.
So much for ditchin’ this town,
An’ hangin’ out on the coast.
Oh well, those plans are long gone.
And he said: “There goes my life.
“There goes my future, my everything.
“Might as well kiss it all good-bye:
“There goes my life.”
A couple years of up all night,
An’ a few thousand diapers later.
That mistake he thought he made,
Covers up the refrigerator:
Oh yeah, he loves that little girl.
An’ Momma’s waiting to tuck her in,
As she fumbles up those stairs.
She smiles back at him,
Dragging that teddy bear:
“Sleep tight.” Blue eyes and bouncing curls.
An’ he smiles: “There goes my life
“There goes my future, my everything.”
“I love you, Daddy, goodnight.”
“There goes my life.”
She had that Honda loaded down,
With Abercrombie clothes,
An’ and fifteen pairs of shoes,
An’ his American Express.
He checked the oil and slammed the hood,
Said: “You’re good to go.”
She hugged them both,
An’d headed off to the west coast.
An’ he cried: “There goes my life.
“There goes my future, my everything.
“I love you, baby, good-bye.
“There goes my life.
“There goes my life.
“Baby, good-bye.”