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About the song

In the realm of pop music, there are songs that entertain, songs that inspire, and songs that touch the very core of our being. “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” by the American rock band Chicago falls into the latter category. Released in 1982 as the lead single from their 16th studio album, Chicago 16, this power ballad has become an enduring classic, resonating with listeners across generations and cultures.

Peter Cetera, the band’s bassist and co-lead vocalist, takes center stage on this heartfelt ballad, his smooth and emotive vocals perfectly capturing the song’s message of regret, longing, and the hope for reconciliation. The lyrics, penned by Cetera and David Foster, are a poignant expression of a love that has been wounded by pride and missteps. The opening lines, “How could I be so wrong? / How could I be so blind?”, set the stage for a journey of self-reflection and emotional vulnerability.

The song’s melody, a masterful blend of pop sensibilities and rock instrumentation, perfectly complements the emotional weight of the lyrics. The opening piano chords establish a melancholic tone, while the soaring chorus, punctuated by Cetera’s impassioned vocals, offers a glimmer of hope amidst the despair. The instrumental bridge, featuring a poignant saxophone solo, provides a moment of respite before the song’s powerful conclusion.

“Hard to Say I’m Sorry” is more than just a song; it’s an emotional catharsis, a universal anthem for those who have struggled with the complexities of love and loss. The song’s enduring popularity is a testament to its ability to connect with listeners on a deeply personal level. Whether it’s the regret of a missed opportunity, the pain of a broken heart, or the yearning for reconciliation, “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” speaks to the universal human experience of love’s trials and triumphs.

In a world often filled with noise and superficiality, “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” stands as a beacon of genuine emotion and heartfelt expression. It’s a song that reminds us of the power of love, the importance of forgiveness, and the enduring hope for healing and reconciliation. With its timeless melody, poignant lyrics, and heartfelt vocals, “Hard to Say I’m Sorry” is a true gem in the vast landscape of popular music, a song that will continue to touch hearts for generations to come.

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Lyrics

[Verse 1: Peter Cetera, with bandmates]
“Everybody needs a little time away”
I heard her say, from each other
Even lovers need a holiday
Far away, from each other

[Pre-Chorus: All]
Hold me now
It’s hard for me to say I’m sorry
I just want you to stay

[Chorus: All]
After all that we’ve been through
I will make it up to you, I promise to
And after all that’s been said and done
You’re just a part of me I can’t let go

[Verse 2: Peter Cetera, with bandmates]
Couldn’t stand to be kept away
Just for the day, from your body
Wouldn’t want to be swept away
Far away, from the one that I love

[Pre-Chorus: All]
Hold me now
It’s hard for me to say I’m sorry
I just want you to know
Hold me now
I really want to tell you I’m sorry
I could never let you go

[Chorus: All]
After all that we’ve been through
I will make it up to you, I promise to
And after all that’s been said and done
You’re just the part of me I can’t let go
After all that we’ve been through
I will make it up to you, I promise to
You’re going to be the lucky one