Some love stories are never told aloud—they’re written in silence. That’s how Andy Williams held onto his first love for years… with letters no one ever read.


A Silent Love From His Youth

Only he and the letters knew

As a young man starting out in music, Andy fell for a kind, soft-spoken woman named Evelyn—a former classmate whose smile lit up the room. But Andy never had the courage to confess.

Evelyn had someone else in her life. Instead of interrupting, Andy chose to express his feelings the only way he could—writing her a letter every month. He never mailed them. He simply kept them, quietly preserving the emotions he couldn’t share out loud.


“Can’t Get Used to Losing You” – A Farewell in Disguise

Unreturned love turned into melody

Years later, Andy’s quiet heartbreak became a timeless song. “Can’t Get Used to Losing You” wasn’t just a breakup anthem—it was the echo of his unspoken words.

Lines like “Guess there’s no use in hangin’ ’round” were more than lyrics. They were a man’s slow, aching goodbye to a love he never even had the chance to live.


A Love Letter Never Sent — But Forever Heard

Evelyn never knew about the letters. Perhaps she never will. But through his music, Andy finally shared what his heart carried for so long—not just with her, but with all of us who’ve ever loved in silence.

Can't Get Used To Losing You (Andy Williams, 1963) - Santa Croce in Gerusalemme

🎵 Song to revisit: Can’t Get Used to Losing You – Andy Williams

Lyrics

Guess there’s no use in hangin’ ’roundGuess I’ll get dressed and do the townI’ll find some crowded avenueThough it will be empty without you
Can’t get used to losin’ youNo matter what I try to doGonna live my whole life throughLoving you
Called up some girl I used to knowAfter I heard her say “Hello”Couldn’t think of anything to saySince you’re gone it happens every day
Can’t get used to losin’ youNo matter what I try to doGonna live my whole life throughLoving you
I’ll find somebody, wait and seeWho am I kiddin’, only me‘Cause no one else could take your placeGuess that I am just a hopeless case
Can’t get used to losin’ youNo matter what I try to doGonna live my whole life throughLoving you
I can’t get used to losin’ youNo matter what I try to doGonna live my whole life throughLoving you

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