A Love Song Born from Solitude
After the dazzling success of “Release Me” in the late 1960s, Engelbert Humperdinck entered a quieter, lonelier chapter of his career. The 1970s brought new musical waves—rock and disco—leaving many classic crooners behind. Yet, in his solitude on long tour nights, Engelbert found the emotion that would inspire his greatest comeback song: “After the Lovin’.”

The Making of a Classic

Written by Ritchie Adams (music) and Alan Bernstein (lyrics) in 1976, the song found its perfect voice in Engelbert. His deep, romantic tone transformed it into a confession rather than just a melody. “After the Lovin’” climbed to #8 on the Billboard Hot 100 and became Billboard’s Adult Contemporary Song of the Year.

English singer Engelbert Humperdinck posed in London circa 1968. (Photo by Ron Howard/Popperfoto via Getty Images)

A Confession in Every Line

The lyrics felt intimate, as if spoken to one lost love:

So I sing you to sleep after the lovin’…
With a song I just wrote yesterday.
Each note carried the ache of longing. Engelbert later said in an interview: “I sang it for everyone who ever woke up alone, missing what they once had.”

Timeless Resonance

The song brought Engelbert a Grammy nomination for Best Male Pop Vocal Performance, reaffirming his place among the greats. Even decades later, audiences still request it at every concert, many holding back tears when he sings the opening line.

Loneliness Turned Into Legacy

For Engelbert, “After the Lovin’” was more than a hit—it was his diary set to music. Each performance was both a remembrance and a healing. In turning his solitude into song, he left behind a timeless gift for lovers everywhere.

🎵 Listen:

📜 Lyrics:

So I sing you to sleep after the lovin’With a song I just wrote yesterdayAnd I hope you can hearWhat the words and the music have to say
It’s so hard to explain everything that I’m feelin’Face to face, I just seem to go dryBut I love you so muchThat the sound of your voice can get me high
Thanks for takin’ me (thanks for taking me)On a one way trip to the sun (one way trip to the sun)And thanks for turning me (turning me)Into someone (someone)
So I sing you to sleep after the lovin’I brush back the hair from your eyesAnd the love on your faceIs so real that it makes me wanna cry
And I know that my songIsn’t sayin’ anything newOh, but after the lovin’I’m still in love with you
So I sing you to sleep after the lovin’I brush back the hair from your eyes (after the lovin’)And the love on your faceIs so real that it makes me wanna cry (your love is real, it makes me cry)
And I know that my songIsn’t sayin’ anything newOh, but after the lovin’ (after the lovin’)I’m still in love with you
Yes, after the lovin’ (after the lovin’)I’m still in love with youHmm, after the lovin’I’m still in love with you